I was recently seeing a guy for 3 months, it all went fairly quickly. we decided after about 2 weeks we didnt want to see other people. I never pressured him to do anything. I thought everything was going great i fell pretty quickly for him and accidentally slipped the “I love you” a bit early when drunk. he let me say it but said it was to early for him to say it yet and wasnt comfortable talking about it but he didnt run off. he had difficulty even telling me he liked me but showed it in his actions. It all fell in a heap on the weekend when he said he wanted to catch up the night before but when sat night came around he was out with the boys and did not make any effort to see me. he did end up coming to the same place as me but didnt tell me he was there i just bumped into him. I was pretty annoyed and angry and told him i was going to break up with him (not meaning it at all) i took it back straight away, but after all this stuff came out. he said it was too hard, and he needed a break to figure out what he wanted then talked about travel and all that. he said he needed to loose me to want me. then we talked a couple of days after and he said ‘he just wasnt feeling it’ and it wasnt going anywhere, he didnt have strong feelings for me. but only weeks before hand he was comatcting me everyday and his mates were telling me how keen he was, and he was so affectionate and loving when we were together??? and i thought there was loads of chemistry, other people including me thought he really cared about me. its left me really confused…..was he really just not into me???