http://menexplained.com Dating and relationship advice for women Thu, 28 Jul 2011 16:39:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 http://menexplained.com/about/#comment-210 Adrienne Mon, 05 Oct 2009 13:46:32 +0000 http://menexplained.com/wordpress/?page_id=2#comment-210 Hi, It's me again! I wrote to you back in January about my boyfriend who had broken up with me after 2 years. Well basically, we got back in contact about 2 weeks ago and he asked me to meet him. He explained to me that the reason he ended things with me is because he freaked out. He felt pressure from himself, his family and friends etc. He said he never felt any pressure from me but it was all him. He said he had missed me throughout the whole year we were apart and that he wanted to give it another go if i was willing. So after some thinking on my part,we agreed to give it another go. I know it's only been 2 weeks but i already have come up against an issue. We have met a few times and would be in contact most days on email. However at the weekend, we weren't in contact much. I just think that he should be making more of an effort with me since it was a big thing for me to allow him back into my life after he hurt me. Am i being paranoid? I feel like he shoud be asking me how my day is etc esp since its still so early that we are back together. I am thinking of saying to him that i don't know where i stand. When we do meet he is really into me and we get on well but then i may not hear from him for a day or so. We did say we are going to take things slow but its also nice to know that someone cares and has an interest. Am i being a clingy woman? should i voice my opinion even though its only 2 weeks in? i feel once again that i'm getting mixed singansl or that he's just not that into me ( not when we meet but when we are apart) Please give me any advice you think i need!! Hi,
It’s me again! I wrote to you back in January about my boyfriend who had broken up with me after 2 years. Well basically, we got back in contact about 2 weeks ago and he asked me to meet him. He explained to me that the reason he ended things with me is because he freaked out. He felt pressure from himself, his family and friends etc. He said he never felt any pressure from me but it was all him. He said he had missed me throughout the whole year we were apart and that he wanted to give it another go if i was willing. So after some thinking on my part,we agreed to give it another go.
I know it’s only been 2 weeks but i already have come up against an issue. We have met a few times and would be in contact most days on email. However at the weekend, we weren’t in contact much. I just think that he should be making more of an effort with me since it was a big thing for me to allow him back into my life after he hurt me. Am i being paranoid? I feel like he shoud be asking me how my day is etc esp since its still so early that we are back together.
I am thinking of saying to him that i don’t know where i stand. When we do meet he is really into me and we get on well but then i may not hear from him for a day or so. We did say we are going to take things slow but its also nice to know that someone cares and has an interest. Am i being a clingy woman? should i voice my opinion even though its only 2 weeks in? i feel once again that i’m getting mixed singansl or that he’s just not that into me ( not when we meet but when we are apart)
Please give me any advice you think i need!!

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